balelangtong

When I was a kid, my cousins use to have this toy called Jenga(http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jenga), it is consist of wooden blocks, and is basically like building a tower by moving each block on top very carefully. So anong point?? hehe, here it goes, naks! as i was drinking my usual huge mug of tea before taking my night shower ( very detailed, kakahawa si tatay) napagnilaynilay ko that building a relationship is like playing Jenga, well except for the part when it’s his time to fall down, ayaw naten nun! hehe! Seriously, those blocks you use for the foundation is like the most important aspects in a relationship. Ganito, if say you’re starting the tower with four blocks, same goes with a relationship, you gotta have honesty, trust, loyalty or whatever it is that you think na pinakaimportante for it to be your foundation. Obviously, a tower’s foundation should keep it from standing so you gotta choose wisely.. Well yun na nga, as you continue playing, each player has to pull a piece and then place it at the topmost of the tower so as to make it taller. “It’s like saying, every piece is like an aspect which eventually matured or developed when placed into the higher level..” hmmm.. Lumalalim at nagiibayo ang bawat aspeto.. make sense, right? But then again, you have to be very careful as you do your turn, coz like handling a relationship, Jenga is a game of physical and mental skill.. Again,be very careful in picking which piece to choose each time you make a turn.. Hindi minamadali para maiwasan ang pagbagsak..

In a relationship, there are a lot of aspects to be considered, pero each aspect has its different level.. Depende sa players.. One thing is for sure, wlang tower na nabuo without starting with a foundation.